I"m trying to find opinions on what world think is the many typical/common an interpretation and intent for many women choosing this option?


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phineas

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This.

You are watching: Wants to date but nothing serious

Ignore what a mrs puts down on pof.

 

Most speak they desire a relationship just so castle don"t look slutty however they will certainly go home with a man on the first date if they uncover him hot enough.


 

Except rather a couple of of them add in the further details something along the lines of just how they room not searching for a hookup.

 

I was reasoning it way she desires to speed date through allot of guys, yet does not want them to gain too close while she secretly hopes to uncover something special?

 

does this sound rite?


I have great luck top top POF.

 

Honestly ns say I want a relationship because that"s what many women want. Come me "dating" is password for "looking for a good time" and also will repel part woman.


"wants come date but nothing serious"

 

I regularly see this on the dating site POF

 

I"m in search of opinions top top what civilization think is the many typical/common definition and will for many women selecting this option?


 

They aren"t dating through the score of a committed relationship. They prefer being single and date casually or just like hook ups. If you space dating for a relationship, don"t day these women.


Some civilization take that literally and also just desire to gently meet people and see where it goes.

 

Some civilization use it come refer to simply wanting to go out.

 

Some people use the as simply want a shag...

 

Only method to uncover out what her interpretation of that is - is to ask her.


I take it at confront value, for this reason something an ext than a one night stand however less than a boyfriend, i.e. Funny without long term commitment. They desire sex but they desire to it is in wined and dined a little too.


To me it reads " desires to date, yet will placed in the bare minimum of effort required come make the happen."


"wants come date however nothing serious"

 

I regularly see this on the dating site POF

 

I"m in search of opinions top top what civilization think is the most typical/common definition and intent for many women choosing this option?


 

I come across this A LOT. A most older women choose these law OLD. They are divorced, dont want a serious committed relationship. They had a bitter divorce and also dont want something significant again. They desire monogamy, and sex will certainly come down the line. However they have a many things in their life. Friends family members children activities work and once in a if they want someone to take it them out for a an excellent time or when her clit requirements attention.

 

but its strict "I continue to be here, you stay there and once in a while once im boring or horny well gain together for fun. It will never be an ext than the though."

 

no marriage, no relocating in. A poodle who will comes once she whistles.

 

btw, you get a the majority of women that write "im trying to find a serious partnership only" however it way the same. Monogamy, however no moving in or marriage.

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Posted September 11, 2015

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Posted September 11, 2015
"wants come date however nothing serious"

 

I frequently see this on the dating website POF

 

I"m searching for opinions top top what civilization think is the most typical/common definition and will for most women choosing this option?


 

they desire to "netflix and chill"--which is another means of speak FWB. They"ll call when they"re horny and also when it"s over, friend gotta go home--you don"t invest the night.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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I come across this A LOT. A lot of older women favor these doing OLD. They room divorced, dont want a serious committed relationship. They had a bitter divorce and dont want something severe again. They desire monogamy, and also sex will come under the line. But they have actually a lot of things in their life. Friends family children activities work and also once in a when they desire someone to take it them out for a good time or as soon as her clit demands attention.

 

but its strict "I continue to be here, you continue to be there and also once in a while as soon as im boring or horny well obtain together for fun. It will never ever be much more than the though."

 

no marriage, no moving in. A poodle that will comes when she whistles.

 

btw, you obtain a most women that write "im searching for a serious relationship only" however it way the same. Monogamy, but no relocating in or marriage.


 

True. There are quite a few of those in the 40+ crowd. It"s no a negative thing if you room also an extremely busy v work, children, and activities. I date them however I do it only on my terms- she needs to accommodate mine schedule. If I"m cost-free I will view her, if not I won"t. I"m no a poodle who comes once she whistles. If she can"t satisfy me on my cost-free days it"s easy enough to uncover someone who can.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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True. Over there are fairly a few of those in the 40+ crowd. It"s not a poor thing if you space also very busy v work, children, and also activities. I date them however I execute it only on mine terms- she has to accommodate mine schedule. If I"m free I will view her, if not I won"t. I"m not a poodle who comes when she whistles. If she can"t meet me top top my free days it"s easy enough to discover someone that can.

 

no the isnt. If both want it. Im searching for a component B relationship. Im no in a rush, but do want to marry and move in under the line. Basically a 2nd marriage. I have a tough time finding a mrs for that. All had actually bitter divorces and also want a long term relationship. But something it is convenient and with "space and distance" thats not for me though. I had something comparable with my ex. I hardly met v her kids. Only slept over once the children were in ~ the father and also basically came there once or double a week, went out to dinner, had sex at night, slept over and also then went earlier home the morning after. Ns wasnt part of the day come day. Talk yes, but there to be a lot of distance and space. And I mean this with physical distance ( 1.2 hour drive) and room because there was always a obstacle of how close she would get. I never got much more than what ns gave. The scales were really weighted top top one side.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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It means she desires to store it casual. She wants to date you, probably have sex through you, but not to go into a cursed stage. She might or might not be seeing others.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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"wants to date however nothing serious"

 

I often see this on the dating site POF

 

I"m searching for opinions ~ above what civilization think is the many typical/common an interpretation and will for many women picking this option?


 

Translation:

 

I"m bat$#!t crazy and even despite I"ll say ns don"t want any kind of drama in mine life, I"m a drama factory.

 

And I have a cat the won"t like you.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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I personally noted "Wants to date but nothing serious", cuz I"m not proactively seeking a relationship, however at the very same time I want to date and also if noþeles comes the end of it, great. That"s my perspective.


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Posted September 11, 2015

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I personally listed "Wants come date yet nothing serious", cuz I"m not actively seeking a relationship, but at the very same time I want to date and also if anything comes out of it, great. That"s mine perspective.

 

I agree with you jams.

 

Everyone start out dating casually.

 

Then, if and when you fulfill someone you entirely click with and it feeling right, you want a RL through *that person*.

 

IMO, starting out with you are looking for a relationship might scare off part people, together they can wonder ... ...with anyone?

 

Some world may watch it as a bit desperate.

 

I don"t carry out OLD ....so i am just speculating, however that is what I would think.

 

Bottom line, don"t review too much right into it. Just meet and also see what wake up from there.

 

Edit: not to mention, how numerous times have actually we heard stories of civilization (men mostly) thinking they *were* looking for a RL, only to find when they were in reality in one, lock didn"t desire it ~ all...

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phineas


Posted September 12, 2015

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Except quite a couple of of them add in the further details something follow me the currently of how they space not in search of a hookup.

 

I was thinking it means she desires to speed day through allot the guys, yet does not desire them to obtain too close if she secretly hopes to find something special?

 

does this sound rite?


 

And yet, I"ve hooked up v women who have actually said they to be not looking for a hookup.

The weird part is i didn"t even shot to hook up with those women.

They came onto me. Lol


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Posted September 12, 2015

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And yet, I"ve hooked up with women who have actually said they were not trying to find a hookup.

The weird component is i didn"t even shot to hook up through those women.

They came onto me. Lol


 

Ironically it appears the ones who say castle don"t want a hookup are more likely come hook up through you.


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Posted September 17, 2015

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Well, that is interesting how most human being assume I"m looking to day a mrs who placed this option.

 

My big secret - that a shocker, for this reason prepare yourself.... It to be the alternative my newly separated (January this year) wife put on her profile!!!

 

The juicy details space this.... Throughout our connection she was basically not interested in sex, even before we got married. She has actually no sexy apparel at all. Never once approached me because that sex, doesn"t masturbate ever... Etc etc. The last 3 year of the marital relationship we only had actually sex twice.... Prior to that every the rejection had actually worn me come the suggest i just offered up asking.

 

I was type of experimenting in a way as well, i wanted to see exactly how long this woman will certainly go without saying or law anything around our sex life. The answer to be apparently, "forever". But pretty stupid way of thinking on mine part, and certainly not the just stupid point i was thinking and doing.

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Anyway, what else happened, as soon as i an initial put mine profile ~ above POF the is when i saw her profile, the next day it to be gone. I presume she must have actually seen mine profile appear and also did not want me to recognize (i walk not click her profile, for this reason she would think i did not view it).

 

I kind of felt negative after that since i perform want she to be happy, and also i have been wonder if i have to encourage her to put it earlier up,, yet if she is after ~ hookups climate i deserve to imagine the conversation would be horribly embarrassing for her?